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Natalie DAlessandro's avatar

Amazing writing. I LOLed the whole time while my husband goes “what are you reading” and I go “you wouldn’t get it.”

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Shelly Mazzanoble's avatar

Ha ha ha, it's a mom thing. :) Thank you for reading, Natalie! I still can't believe it happened.

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Jodi Sh. Doff's avatar

I love this. This kid has no idea how lucky he is to have you on his team. ❤️

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Shelly Mazzanoble's avatar

Lucky AND scared! Thank you, Jodi. That is very nice of you to say!

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Lee Bacon's avatar

I’m not a mom, but I’m definitely an overthinker. My kids are still at the age where their biggest dreams are either super achievable (“I want a new stuffy for my birthday !”) or ridiculously impossible (“I want a penguin for my birthday!”). But just the other day, my older daughter announced that she wants to meet Taylor Swift. If this obsession sticks, I might need to start working on my manifesting skills.

Great post!

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Shelly Mazzanoble's avatar

We MUST start manifesting that now! "I can't believe you got your daughter to meet Taylor Swift! And Taylor got all her fans to subscribe to your Substack! Amazing!"

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Lee Bacon's avatar

I’ll start working on my vision board!

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Shelly Mazzanoble's avatar

Yesssssssssss!!! 🧙‍♀️

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Liz Alterman's avatar

Loved every witchy word of this, especially …but I— like every contestant on The Bachelor— trusted the process. 😂

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Shelly Mazzanoble's avatar

ooh yes, hoped there'd be a few of you that got that line! hahahahah! Thank you, Liz!

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Liz Alterman's avatar

Oh, Shelly, if only I could get back the 3 hours I spent Monday night watching Grant waffle ‘til the last minute! 🤣

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Shelly Mazzanoble's avatar

With that super random, out of character: “Come on now!” 😆

Where was that energy all season????

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Liz Alterman's avatar

Yes, I think he’d have been more into her if she showed a bit of that fire earlier! As soon as he turned me down, I’d have thrown my heels into a sand dune. I can’t believe she had to suffer that too!

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Shelly Mazzanoble's avatar

She didn't want a "husband" so much as a baby daddy. I pressure to procreate was palpable!

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Liz Alterman's avatar

Yes! I was like, maybe get to know him a bit better before you have all those kids!

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Shelly Mazzanoble's avatar

Honestly, I feel like I could’ve been an hour and a half if LaTia didn’t talk so slowly!

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Liz Alterman's avatar

🤣 Absolutely! She only came alive at the end! 🤣

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Amanda Jaffe's avatar

This was awesomeness piled upon more awesomeness. It was...awesome!

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Shelly Mazzanoble's avatar

YOU are awesome! Piles and piles of awesome! Thank you so much, Amanda!

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Maryellen Brady 💗📚's avatar

This was wonderful & sooooo a cool Mom thing to manifest her kiddos dream.

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Shelly Mazzanoble's avatar

Thank you, Maryellen! One might think I could use these powers for…you know…bigger more important things but that’s about as big and important to my son that you can get!

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Charlotte | Baby Brain's avatar

You're hilarious. Just imagining you manifesting your little heart out and confusing everyone around you as you do so brings me so much joy

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Shelly Mazzanoble's avatar

It was soooooo confusing for everyone! Now people always ask me if something I said was “real” or “future real.”

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Charlotte | Baby Brain's avatar

Hahaha, I hope you don’t reply. Leave them guessing.

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Kathryn Barbash, PsyD's avatar

I always knew you were a witch.

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Shelly Mazzanoble's avatar

Indeed! Takes one to know one?

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Chris Stanton's avatar

Okay. This was stellar with a capital STELL. (I don’t know, it sounded good.) So funny, and you are my new manifesting role model. I believe in that wholeheartedly, by the way. Radar is so lucky to have you for a mom. Btw, I really enjoyed your conversation with Andrea yesterday. We need to do something soon!

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Shelly Mazzanoble's avatar

I agree Radar is very lucky. Today he told me otherwise because I was going to make him walk .03 miles to a pizza place and he said his legs were so tired from playing basketball for 4 hours. I am a monster. I LOVE that you believe in manifesting! Do you think we “accidentally” manifested our Substack friendship???? And YES, let’s do a live soon and see what happens!

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Chris Stanton's avatar

I have half a mind to call Social Service for that inhumane .03 hike you were threatening. But the other half of my mind is focused on Cheez-Its and that half always wins. I think we had to have manifested our Substack friendship! And now we’re going to manifest hundreds of people enjoying our live. Btw, do you know Ros Barber? She interviewed me last week, and one of the things we talked about was manifesting. She told me a really wild story in it. I think you’d like the conversation. I believe she’s going to post it on Friday.

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Henny Hiemenz's avatar

This was so awesome Shelly, you’ve got a very lucky son! Our family has a Down syndrome friend that has called my mom “the good witch” for the past 30 years (for unknown reasons 🤣)….no higher praise!

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Shelly Mazzanoble's avatar

I love that!!! Especially the “unknown reasons!” I would be so flattered!

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Sara's avatar

Yeah girl, you manifested the SHIT OUTTA that 👏 🏆 I was on the edge of my seat. Now I wanna see you manifest something amazing for yourself - a week-long vacation with free flow cocktails? I’m still trying to manifest for my kids to pick up their wet towels each day 🤷‍♀️

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Shelly Mazzanoble's avatar

Found a wet towel on my bed today. I don't think the universe has time to make adult men let alone children pick up towels. It's weird!

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Liza Blue's avatar

My son grew up with Michael Jorden and the Chicago Bulls. HIs friend was the lawyer for teammate Scottie Pippen, so he had the opportunity to stand courtside with Scottie Pippen. Now 25+ years later he could still tell which of his shoulders Pippen touched. It made all the difference and he has been a committed basketball fan ever since. It changed his life.

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Shelly Mazzanoble's avatar

Oh my goodness, I love this story so much! What a dream that must have been!!

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Lindsey Smith | Not Normal's avatar

"NBA tickets cost more than eggs" had me ROLLING.

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Shelly Mazzanoble's avatar

I sat her thinking “what’s something so expensive that everyone can relate to… “ That was all I could come up with!

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Lindsey Smith | Not Normal's avatar

Eggs: the everyman’s luxury item.

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Joe Wride's avatar

Great post! Dad's love to read about sports - because Dad's are your target reader right??? Anyway... I do feel compelled to point out that the ball on your golden ticket was a volleyball and not a basketball! I think that's hilarious because it shows how much you've studied up to be a basketball Mom and yet... you still have so much to learn still. Haha!

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Shelly Mazzanoble's avatar

OMG! 😱 That is hysterical! I blame the Canva template! hahahhahahaa! And yes, Middle-Aged Lady Mom's core demographic is dads.

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Lisa Hides's avatar

Awww love this!!

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Shelly Mazzanoble's avatar

Thank you, Lisa!

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Jennie O'Connor ❌👑's avatar

This was magnificent on so many levels! What else could we do with those manifestation powers right now? 🤔 Mine aren’t too shabby either, if I do say so… 🧙🏻‍♀️

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Shelly Mazzanoble's avatar

Thank you, Jennie! Perhaps we should join forces and make some real magic happen!

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